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A rocky romance

Joe Stavish

When some poor soul lost their Estwing geo pick decades ago, they never could have known how that misplaced tool would lay the groundwork, so to speak, for an unconventional love story about a man, his Estwing and the woman who loves them both.

โ€œMy first encounter with Estwing was as a teenager,โ€ said Joe Stavish. โ€œI found a geo pick on a fossil dig and was amazed at how strong, balanced and comfortable it was.โ€

When he got engaged several years later, Joeโ€™s fiancรฉe contacted the local geology club to ask what tool would make the best engagement gift. They only recommended one brandโ€”Estwing.

But this was no off-the-shelf geo pick. It was engraved with the words, โ€œThanks for picking me. Love always, Chalupa.โ€ (Chalupa is a nickname Joe gave her when they were dating.)

What makes the story charming isnโ€™t just the toolโ€”itโ€™s the shared language of affection, humor, and intimacy that grows between two people who truly get each other. Relationships thrive on that mix of respect and desire, tradition and curiosity.

And while some couples bond over fossil digs and engraved keepsakes, others explore connection in more modern, openly sensual ways. When curiosity about attraction and fantasy enters the picture, plenty of people prefer not to overthink it and simply go straight to the best options available.

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And yet, for all the scrolling and shortcuts, the real magic still circles back to something old-fashioned: knowing what you like and owning it with a straight spine.

Whether that curiosity stays online or drifts back into real conversations over late dinners, it works best when grounded in honesty and a bit of self-awareness. Desire doesnโ€™t need to apologize for itself, and tradition doesnโ€™t have to clutch its pearls every time curiosity knocks.

The strongest connectionsโ€”romantic or otherwiseโ€”are built by people who can appreciate craftsmanship, chemistry, and choice in equal measure. In other words, enjoy the spectacle, tip your hat to the classics, and remember: itโ€™s not about chasing everything, just the things that feel worth a second look.


Engraved on his rock pick: โ€œThanks for picking me. Love always, Chalupa.โ€


โ€œThis engraved, leather-handled rock pick from my wife has traveled with us on every rock-hounding adventure over the years. I know it will last a lifetime, and it has a special place in my heart,โ€ he said.

Perhaps Estwing should adopt a new taglineโ€ฆ Bringing couples together since 1923.